ORIGINS
of METTA practice
The
Pali word metta means loving-kindness, friendliness, goodwill,
benevolence, fellowship, amity, concord, inoffensiveness and non-violence.
The Pali commentators define metta as the strong wish for the
welfare and happiness of others (parahita-parasukha-kamana). Essentially
metta is an altruistic attitude of love and friendliness as distinguished
from mere amiability based on self-interest. Through metta one
refuses to be offensive and renounces bitterness, resentment and
animosity of every kind, developing instead a mind of friendliness
and benevolence which seeks the well-being and happiness of others.
True metta is devoid of self-interest. It evokes within a warm-hearted
feeling of fellowship, sympathy and love, which grows boundless
with practice and overcomes all social, religious, racial, political
and economic barriers. Metta is indeed a universal, unselfish
and all-embracing love.
Metta makes one a pure fountain of well-being and safety for others.
Just as a mother gives her own life to protect her child, so metta
only gives without conditions. To promote one's own interest is
a primordial motivation of human nature. When this urge is transformed
into the desire to promote the interest and happiness of others,
not only is the basic urge of self-seeking overcome, but the mind
becomes universal by identifying its own interest with the interest
of all. Thus one also promotes one's own well-being in the best
possible manner.
Metta is the protective and patient attitude of a mother who forbears
all difficulties for the sake of her child and ever protects it
despite its misbehavior. Metta is also the attitude of a dedicated
friend. If these qualities of metta are sufficiently cultivated
through metta-bhavana -- the meditation on universal love -- the
result is the acquisition of a tremendous inner power which preserves,
protects and heals both oneself and others.
Apart from its higher implications, today metta is a pragmatic
necessity. In a world menaced by all kinds of destructiveness,
metta in deed, word and thought is the only constructive means
to bring concord, peace and mutual understanding. Indeed, metta
is the supreme means, for it forms the fundamental tenet of all
the higher religions as well as the basis for all benevolent activities
intended to promote human well-being. Read the full metta
sutta here.
source:
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/bps/wheels/wheel365.html#intro
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